BICYCLE BITCHEN: PT 2
Thread started by brittany
at 11.12.13 - 10:30 am
Just wanted you to know, please feel free to show up at Bicycle Bitchen! Guys are totally welcome! I went yesterday, and not only was a guy inside, but the guys who hang out there ALL DAY were outside the gate, chillin, bothering me, of course. Because 3 hours of acting respectful is just too many.
Safe space my ass. Those girls laughed
at me when I let them know I was "Sorry I'm in shock" and "maybe I should leave" because "Efrin tried to fuck me at 3am last time I was at the Kitchen and is sitting out front."
Did he leave me alone, knowing our last experience together included unprovoked sexual advances and I was pissed? Nope, because I am rarely treated with respect, and am constantly blamed for it.
"Hi Brittany" "I'm not your friend." *hilarious male laughter ensues* Patriarchy wins. Send Rudy to Brittany after she leaves. What did Brittany do wrong? Show up?
Safe space as long as Efrin doesn't want to fuck you out of nowhere, and be enabled by Midnight Ridazz asswipes who think you can act like a total clear-verbal-boundary-crossing douchebag, as long as you're piss-soaked drunk.
Apologize? Nah. Blame Brittany? Fersure. Why not? Everyone else does...
Went to bicycle bitchen to fix my derailleur. Not only was a dude inside, but Efrin, Rudy and their 5 lackeys were out front, and rather than leave me alone in my intentional female space, decide to act like we are friends..
I waited ALL AFTERNOON IN SHITTY HIPSTER LOS FELIZ to specifically go to the female space so I could be sure Efrin knew I did not consent to his unwanted behavior, (which he should fucking know clearly after I left the space at 3am for Union Station because he acted like a dumbfuck, but unfortunately rape culture is so prevalent in the Midnight Ridazz scene, I have to constantly be worried even when I say "NO" I am "asking for it" in the public eye DISGUSTING)
I waited because my last experience at the Kitchen was Efrin, drunk as a skunk, in piss soaked shorts, at 3am, sitting a foot away from me responding to my rejection with REPEATING "I want to fuck you" after faking a platonic friendship for an entire year. And Rudy, instead of backing me up when I told loser-piss-boy to move further away from me than 12 inches, begins to tell me what a good guy Efrin is. He never moved when I asked him to move and told him I was uncomfortable. He treated me like shit.
Am I mad for them being drunken idiots? Nope.
Am I mad that these losers call themselves my friends, write on my Facebook wall "we didn't do anything wrong" and make me out to be the bitch when in reality, obviously I don't call anyone a friend who treats me with such disrespect and objectification, and DOESN'T EVEN APOLOGIZE? Yes.
Do I think Efrin and Rudy are predators? No.
Do I think Midnight Ridazz culture enables these guys to act like this AND be so ignorant to understand WE ARE NOT FRIENDS? Yes, yes I do.
Most importantly, I still need to fix my derailleur. :(
Please let these guys (Efrin, Rudy and friends) know if they'd like to apologize to me for promising me a safe space at 3am, and instead making me so uncomfortable and not respecting requests to stop physically intimidating me, while making sexual advances, causing me to leave for DTLA at 3am....I'd gladly accept.
Until then, fuck losers who call themselves my friends yet treat me like shit.
GO TO BICYCLE BITCHEN, hang out, kick it out front and bother the girls as they enter. Treat them like sex objects. Totally acceptable. Or is it only OK if the girl is wearing thigh high striped socks and a short dress with bicycle shorts underneath?
Can any of the three ladies at Bicycle Bitchen yesterday explain to me why I was treated with such contempt? No one acknowledged (literally, no words, except, "Efrin?") my concerns that I was bothered by the guys out front and their sexual advances? Even FOLLOWED after I left? I really hope it wasn't my socks or sexy dress. Surely not that.
Big ups to homegurl lying that I yelled at the girls when I only spoke in a soft, scared, shocked and submissive voice, or either may be telling me I should take harassment like a good girl and not fight back.
She's also lying that they left with me to tell them to leave. If that was true, why didn't she see Rudy follow me?
Fuck bike bitchen and then lying bitches. If they gave a fuck, I wouldn't be receiving straight lies from the horses mouth.
Congrats guys, you win. Even the bike bitchen bitches make up lies to blame me and save their own ass. Everyone thinks I'm crazy, for all I know, the girls there knew exactly who I was and believed it too....why would I yell and prove then right? Additionally, I would never abuse women as a solution to receiving sexist behavior. I'm not a fucking idiot, but apparently Sibbohan thinks so....
Expecting me to have a private conversation so she can't be held responsible for the truth? Nah, if you got nothing to lie about, post my fake behavior publicly.
Fuck those victim blaming, lie creating bitches. Now people really will think I lie about everything and it is ok sure guys to continually disrespect my consent, cause even these ladies will enable it. Fuck at this point, if I'm even having the same problem and bike bitchen and they want to lie that I was aggressive, rather than completely fucking traumatized, I wouldn't believe me either.
Thanks a fucking lot, funny how she stopped replying when I let her know she's full of shit and I'd publicly post all lies. Bicycle bitchen.
So fucked up beyond comprehension. Just take responsibility, I sat there two minutes obviously traumatised and soft spoken having trouble voicing how scared I was, feeling like my presence was consenting to unwanted behavior, receiving no answer, one girl laughed, and literally nothing else was said expect "I'm in shock" "efrin tried to fuck me," and "I should leave" there was no reason to raise ny voice. If I did, it was at the guys as I was being harassed walking out. Should I have taken it like a soft spoken good girl, or what?
Fuck that lying Dolan bitch.
11.13.13 - 2:34 pm
Brittany, I was one of the Cooks volunteering that night. Not one of us laughed. In fact, we had a lengthy discussion about off-hours use of the space and what happens that we are unaware of. The details you very briefly gave caught us off guard and we were going outside with you to ask them to leave the premise. You left yelling and there was no way for us to work out a way where you DID feel safe in the space that night. You didn't want to stay past the few seconds you were there. I am sorry you didn't expect to see them there after the Monday afternoon shift and how that made you feel. If you feel they said something to you in disrespect, let's talk about that. That concerns me and that I, and the Cook community, take seriously. I see your anger and I respect that you have a right to voice that. I wish you didn't feel so angry at Bitchen and what you think it represents to you. We can take this conversation further in a more proper setting.
I did not yell at all, I maybe yelled at the boys we weren't friends. That's a straight up lie. And you did not leave with me, if you did wouldn't you have stopped Rudy from following me? Why are you lying?
The Asian girl was laughing.
I was too fucking traumatized and nearly crying to yell. Are you telling me I shouldn't yell back at boys harassing me? Just take it like a good bitch?
You're straight lying and I will publicly post your lies. It may be best that you go away. You're totally full of shit, I have nothing to lie about. Laterz.
Then she blocked me. I was not there a few seconds, I was there several minutes trying to explain through OBVIOUS fear and received zero words in response other than "Efrin?"
And making excuses for the guys, the afternoon shift ended at 5, I showed up at 6:45. That's 105 minutes to show some fucking respect and hang out somewhere else for three hours.
Lies lies lies. So sad. I don't blame anyone for thinking I'm a liar after this, but as always at least know the honest facts, and see the obvious lies, victim blaming and minimizing in that response.
I'm floored she said I left yelling after a few seconds. That's a total fucking lie. I sat there for minutes quiet, trying not to cry, waiting for a response I never received. Wow!!!!
Trust me if I yelled, I would have been nothing short of crazy and cruel, and not received such a cordial response. I just want to be sure she's not spreading such disgusting lies
11.13.13 - 2:49 pm
I actually remember specially looking back at the door to my right top see if anyone inside was even looking at me. Not even. So I went nearly thirty feet, around the gate and the opposite direction of the posted boys towards Vons, and no one exited that door. Complete lie.
No, I still don't care if no one cares and wants me to shut up. Save the post.
11.13.13 - 3:04 pm
Borfo, this is by far your best troll account! Sweet job on this! Too bad you didn't put this effort in the Hipster one.
This one makes me laff and laff and laff!!!!!!!!!
I walk the line
11.14.13 - 2:57 pm
Brittany, can't you get a couple of male friends to fuck them up? Have them around the corner so these pricks don't realize you have back up and when they start their shit, walk out, point them out to your boys and watch them piss their drunk asses even more. Just a shove to the floor, a slap, and a stern warning is enough. I daresay these guys, providing that what you say is true, deserve a fucking beating.
There's more men than women in the bike scene so you will inevitably have a few creeps pedaling along.
11.17.13 - 4:55 pm